December 27, 2017

2017 Year End Giving

Every year, Yangkyu and I try to give to at least 10 causes near and dear to our hearts. Our tradition began with our wedding 8 years ago when we donated to The National Arbor Foundation and the World Wildlife Fund in lieu of wedding favors. 

Throughout the year we answer to calls for emergency funding or general operating funds. Our areas of interest mainly is animal rescue (rehabilitation but also advocacy to change laws on the local, state and federal levels) but we also support efforts that fight for fair food, immigrant rights, LBGQT rights and the empowerment of young girls of color. And while we have donated to national organizations, we have a special spot for community based, grassroots efforts and organizations that may not get the national spotlight to generate much needed funds to do work that is often times mostly volunteer driven.

And because we love year end fundraising efforts where organizations reflect on the work they have accomplished and renew their dedication for the upcoming year, we save our donation list until the end of the year in hopes that it may encourage a few of our friends and family to donate before the year is out. 

It is still not too late to give to a cause that is important to you. And no amount is too little or too much. I often times hear people who think their $5 won't do much. Believe me. Every dollar counts. 

Yangkyu and I both have been involved with grassroots fundraising efforts in the past (we met 16 years ago at a nonprofit where I worked and where he volunteered!) -- we have solicited our friends during seasonal fundraising drives, have hit the streets and supermarkets and asked for a dollar per person -- and it's hard work (rude rejections are tough) but it's fulfilling (because there is always more nice than rude at the end of the day). And every dollar counts.

Here is our 2017 list: 

03 // OBG Cocker Spaniel Rescue (calendar contest)
06 // Amazon Wish List for Hurricane Harvey relief via Merritt Law Firm, LLC
07 // Amazon Wish List for Hurricane Harvey relief for animals via Best Friends Society
08 // DACA renewal fees 
09 // Gwen's ultra sound and x-rays (personal appeal)
10 // Hurricane Maria relief for animals via Kriser's Natural Pet
11 // Animal Lighthouse Rescue (Hurricane Maria relief)
12 // WETA (public television)
14 // OBG Cocker Spaniel Rescue (holiday drive)

Aside from our personal donations, we normally save all the tips that come in through Piri's Place and donate half of it at the end of the year. This year we tapped into that money early to donate to hurricane animal relief efforts in Texas, Florida and Puerto Rico (reflected above in our overall list). 

We also donated some goods (things Bartles never got to use) to the Fairfax County Animal Shelter and as we do every Thanksgiving, participate in our neighborhood food drive conducted by a local Boy Scouts troop.

Our previous giving lists:

December 25, 2017

Merry Christmas

 To you and yours.

Jane, Yangkyu and Lady

December 22, 2017

Vegan Birthday Cupcakes, food journey update and the holidays

It was my birthday two days ago and in the midst of taking care of all things post car accident, we stopped by a cupcake store near our old stomping grounds in Fairfax and picked up some vegan cupcakes. Originally, I thought I'd make vegan donuts and we'd give those a try for my birthday. While that idea didn't pan out I still want to try it at a later time. 

We didn't do a lot of birthday "things" -- we started our day off early going to Enterprise to rent a car, then to the chiropractor's office to make sure Yangkyu was ok (he also plans on seeing someone who specializes accidents), then grabbing a bite to eat, picking up Lady's food at Kriser's, then these cupcakes and then heading over to the collision center to pick up our personal items from our car. Then it was back home where we napped, then had these delicious cupcakes, skipped dinner and then caught a night showing of Star Wars in 3D. We had bought these tickets a while back and had the most rockin' seats in the theatre. I already knew what my birthday/Christmas present was but Yangkyu wrapped it anyway and so I'll open it on Christmas morning along with everyone else. 

Yangkyu felt so bad that my birthday was spent taking care of things but Yangkyu is really the one person who I never tire of being with. And so getting to spend the entire day with him was a present in itself. 

As for my food journey, I thought I'd do a little recap since the last time I checked in (which was on December 8th).

Still meatless. Yay. I am 100% sure I didn't consume meat or meat-based broths. Dairy though I have consumed - some consciously others not. 

There is a time of the month, once a month, where I crave really bad junk food. It's always been Burger King. I have it for about two nights and then I'm done. This month oddly I didn't have the overpowering cravings like I normally have but did have it slightly and so I settled on pizza. It wasn't that I craved cheese. I don't crave cheese at all but it was just a choice of junk of out there that was meatless. Hopefully next month I can be better about it. 

I also realized two days ago that I ordered a chai latte and didn't specify that I wanted it with almond milk (I corrected that last night when I ordered a mocha frappe with almond milk). I also picked up something at the Korean grocery market - pan fried fish filets. I still eat fish (I can't seem to find alternatives to fish so for now I am consuming them - fish oil is a big part of a lot of Korean dishes I make and so I'm going to figure out how to get around this one). Anyway, I picked up those fish filets because, well, it isn't meat. I was half way through eating them when I realized that it's actually dipped in eggs before being pan fried. It was just such a secondary thing that it completely slipped my mind. I mean the egg covering is there. It's so visible. But I think I am still getting used to being more conscious about what goes in to what. I'm not beating myself over these mistakes. I'm sure I'll get it right as time goes on. 

In the meantime, I have found that meatless food from the brand Gardein is awfully good. With meatless food that tastes this good, it's hard to go back to actual meat. I have also found the bibimbap patties from Dr. Praeger's is amazing as well. 

When I first committed to doing this, I said I wouldn't really read labels to make sure certain things didn't have dairy products in them. I was just going to make those visible changes first, like switching out my milk, cheese, etc. But I am finding myself reading labels more and more. One time I found that heavy whipping cream has an ingredient that I don't even feed my dog. Wow. (It's carrageenan if you were wondering). 

Yangkyu still consumes meat but when he is with me he eats what I make. When we go out to eat, he gets what he wants and I get something that isn't meat, and non-dairy based or if the restaurant has a vegan/vegetarian menu, I'll get something from there. It's been good although going out to eat or going out on a whim still feels daunting with the feeling that I am very limited with my choices. Still, I don't feel groggy, I don't feel tortured, I don't feel like I'm missing out. It's actually have been a pleasant experience, especially because I finding new ways to cook and new foods to prepare has been an enjoyable one. So yays all around so far. 

It's almost Christmas! I can't believe it. I have been waiting since Halloween. 

Happy weekend and Happy Holidays from me, Yangkyu and Lady. 

December 21, 2017

The story of how I always end up at the edge of the bed

This morning, I slept in a bit longer. Yangkyu left for work and Lady decided, too, to sleep a bit more and came to lay right beside me. 

Why are we cramped up like this on my side of the bed? There is more room now.

I moved to the middle.

Lady moved too. 

Few minutes later, I thought to give Lady some more room and moved to Yangkyu's side of the bed.

I woke up maybe 40 minutes later hanging on the side of the bed and Lady sprawled out in the middle sleeping like a queen.

This is the story of how I always end up at the edge of the bed.

The end.


A couple of nights ago, Yangkyu was in a three-car accident at an intersection. Most likely our car will be considered a total loss. We went to the collision center yesterday to get our belongings out while we wait for the insurance company to make the decision. 

We bought our Toyota Matrix in May of 2009. It was three months before our wedding. A good friend of Yangkyu's who is a car enthusiasist helped Yangkyu test drive cars so that he can choose one that is right for him. For us. Yangkyu sometimes isn't the greatest at making decisions, especially on big ticket items, and so he asked me to come with him the day he was to buy the car. He said it is going to be our car.

"What did you decide on?" I asked him, to which he replied, "Probably the Honda Civic." He had driven the Civic before. It was familiar. 

We both don't really have interest in cars, and so I just replied, "I see..." when I saw a cute little hatchback parked near our apartment. 

"Hey Yangkyu? What's that car over there?"
"That? That's the Toyota Matrix."
"It's cute."
"Do you like it? Should we buy that one?"
"Ok! Let's' test drive it today and buy it!"

And that's how we decided on our first car together.

His colleagues at the time saw his new car and called it a rat color (because it was grey and while it sounds a little odd in English, when said in Korean it doesn't sound all that weird). When he told me this story, I suggested to Yangkyu that we name our Matrix Despereaux. I think the movie The Tale of Despereaux was playing in the theaters in and around this time.

When I recall back to our memory as a family, like Piri and Bartles, this car is always a part of it. It helped us move from New York to Maryland to our condo in Virginia and then our first home. 

It was a small car but it was mighty. We used every little crevice to pack it up with Piri's carriage and our bags and went on so many road trips. It helped us get to the hospital for Piri's surgeries and treatments and silently drove in the darkness with a lifeless Piri in the front seat. His last ride. A heartbroken Yangkyu and me, it seemed as though Despereaux stayed strong to help us get through this difficult ride.

When Bartles came back to us in the form of ashes, I held him tightly and our Matrix, once again, like it has always done, safely got us back home. It welcomed Lady for the first time after we met her at an adoption event and brought her to her forever home. 

When Yangkyu and I had trouble conceiving, our car was there, bringing us to and from clinics for tests and infertility treatments. When those didn't work, we gave up but somehow miraculously got pregnant, which was, unfortunately, short-lived. And in the middle of the night, just hours before we were to move to our home, I miscarried while sleeping. Yangkyu held my hand, a broken me crying and in pain, and our car got us safely to the emergency room. And afterwards while I was holding back my tears, this car of ours took in my wails as soon as I got in and locked the doors. It blocked all sounds and acted as a protective shield for what seemed like hours while I wailed and wailed and wailed. 

At the end of the day, it is just a car. But to me it's a car full of memories.

At the collision center, those memories came back to me. And I cried at each passing memory.

To be honest, I have been bringing up the idea of getting a new car. Yangkyu said the Matrix is still good. And since Virginia has a car tax, it seemed like a waste of money for us to keep two cars (although in the end, that is what we said we would do so that I can start to drive a bit more). But we agreed to wait a bit longer until we bought a new car.

I thought that till the end, our little hatchback kept us safe, kept Yangkyu safe in the accident.

Yangkyu said, "Piri, Bartles and the rest of the gang of misfits said they needed to use the car over across the rainbow bridge. So they decided to take it.."

Yangkyu always makes up stories like this. And they always seem real. 

December 19, 2017

Happy 1st Gotcha Day, Mr. Bartles!

A year ago today, Mr. Bartles came home to us and we became each other's forever family. He's no longer with us but we wanted to send over a smile and our love across the rainbow bridge to wish him a very happy first Gotcha Day. 

Thank you for making us feel like the most special people on earth, Mr. B. 

Miss you. Love you always. 

December 15, 2017

The most wonderful holiday cards by Katrina Sophia

For some of our long time friends, you may recall that we always have two sets of cards -- a photo card of Piri for all our dog loving friends and then a non-photo card for everyone else.

This year, we were looking forward to having a photo card of Bartles but he left us before we could celebrate the holidays with him. 

I couldn't bear the thought of getting through Christmas this year without having something of Bartles and so I reached out to Katrina Sophia to see if she would be willing to paint an original piece of art to use for our holiday cards that featured Bartles and Piri and Lady all together.

When Piri crossed the rainbow bridge, Katrina surprised me with a piece of mailing that touched my heart. It was a water color of Piri with an expression on his face that I can spot as uniquely his from a mile away. I knew I always wanted to go to her for some sort of art work and the holidays was a perfect time to do just that. 

I absolutely love the finished piece. I can't tell you enough how well she captured their face expression. It's them. It's Piri, Lady and Bartles. And these cards are by far my favorite.

I only ordered 20 to send to our closest dog friends and people who have been in Piri and Bartles' corner. When I ran out, I deeply regretted not ordering more. But we had also ordered a batch of photo cards of Lady since it is her first Christmas with us and picked up a box of non-photo cards as well. 

All the cards are gone - except one each of the ones that Katrina made for us and the phone cards of Lady. I usually save a card as a keepsake.

Thank you Katrina for making this Christmas extra special for us. 

You can see more of Katrina Sophia's work at her shop and also on her blog and Instagram

December 14, 2017

Holiday gift guide for Cocker Spaniel lovers

We haven't done these in a while. I almost passed on doing them again but then thought what the heck. Let's round up some of the cutest cocker spaniel things and see if it may be something you can give to the cocker spaniel lover in your life. Some of the items (starred) are gifts that give back  so be sure to check them out. (Please note some Etsy shops are not based in the US and some items may only ship within the US)

Happy holidays!

December 12, 2017

Travel Korea: Museum of Modern History of Korea (Heyri Art Village)

My parents live very close to the Heyri Art Village (or Valley), which is located in the city of Paju. Yangkyu and I came here for a brief drive toward the beginning of our trip when we were getting ready to go on our DMZ tours. You need more than just a few minutes to take in everything and so Yangkyu and I decided to come back toward the end of our trip to spend a day here. However... the most unfortunate thing happened when we actually got to Heyri Art Village on a Monday morning. Everything is closed here on Mondays. Everything. 

We happened to luck out because the Museum of Modern History of Korea was open only because they were catering to a few group tours. While we weren't with the tour group, we got to purchase tickets and peruse as well and even though we didn't get to experience the entire art village, experiencing just the museum totally made up for it. 

Thankfully Yangkyu and I got a head start before the group tours came, and thank goodness we did. We found out they were rowdy elementary school children (one endless group after another) who ran loose (I am not exaggerating) throughout the entire museum being loud and obnoxious, touching everything and not really giving a damn about actually learning something or two. The teachers allowed them to run wild (absolutely no control whatsoever). They were so bad that the museum security guard ended up blocking certain sections of the museum where you can see things up close so they wouldn't be able to break anything (Yangkyu and I got locked in one of those display areas but he quickly came to let us out). After a while even the security guard got frustrated and yelled at the students saying, "What do you think this place is? A playground?!"

I'm digressing..

Back to the actual museum and its contents...

Where many people will see a bunch of junk from the past, I see a massive treasure trove. I love old things. My parents loved antiques and I would go with them almost every weekend to Manhattan after my flute lessons to the various flea markets and antique shops. They had an amazing vintage radio collection and pieces of furniture. An old dresser mirror was a favorite. It was "lost" when we were moving one day - the movers said it mysteriously vanished. 

Anyway here I go off on a tangent again. 

If you are like me, this place is gold. It is a fairly large history museum told through personal, historical and commercial items from the 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s. It is designed in a way that makes you feel like you are sent to the past, walking past stores and shops from back in the day. And while it is a history museum telling the stories of years well before I was born, some of the things looked familiar as they were around in the mid-eighties when I was still living in Korea. Yangkyu too, as he came to the US a little later than I did, noticed things he recognized. Most notably were bus tokens he used when he was in elementary school. That one made his jaw drop. 

Many things have been upgraded now in Korea. You know, when I came to the states, one of the things my classmates asked was if they had phones in Korea. I was shocked and said of course. Korea is a modern country. Nowadays, many people think of Korea as one of the leaders in the mobile (and the wider electronic) industry. But back in 1986, especially in the town I grew up in, not many people knew what and where Korea was (the town I grew up in now has so many Korean American students that I hear even teachers know how to speak a word or two in Korean). And while Korea was "modernized" the 80s, it certainly doesn't compare to the way it is now. Perhaps Yangkyu and I still recognized some of the homewares and other everyday items because the change didn't happen until the 90s. But still, while I was mostly taking pictures to bring back to my parents (since it really is from their generation), it was a delightful surprise to be able to relate to some of the displays myself.

 // Old campaign posters // 

 // The red post box on the left says "Go Hung" on the side. That is where Yangkyu's mom's side of the family is from // 

 // There was this one Korean TV show that I loved watching. Yangkyu said I was the only one who probably watched it (it was later canceled, which totally bummed me out). But the show was all about things from the past in Korea, whether it was trends or how things were done then to famous celebrities, shows and songs and historical happenings. One episode was all about a trend from when our parents were young, which was keeping pen pals. I saw some of the pictures and letters that were exchanged during this fad at this museum and I proudly turned to Yangkyu and told him that the only reason I know what this is is because of that TV show. Yangkyu doesn't really roll his eyes but I think I may seen a variation of it here. heh)

 // Vinyls // 

You will find everything here. I mean everything. 

Political campaign posters, old school textbooks, vinyl records, kitchenwares, magazine ads, movie posters, beauty salons and barber shops, luggages, shamanism rituals, old restaurant receipts, information on Korea's independence movement, Red Scare, and propaganda posters. I was especially interested in the propaganda posters.

Back then, Communist North Korea was demonized. You even saw that in the way they were drawn in the propaganda materials -- they had horns and looked absolutely evil. It's interesting because I heard that this was the way the south's relationship with the north was taught in school up until our generation (Yangkyu's and my generation - I wasn't around when they taught this, but a friend we knew told us). While our generation would draw pictures of North Korea and its people with horns the generation right after ours (the ones born in the 80s) was all about peace, pigeons and handshakes. I mean, it's that crazy? This all, I mean, has deeper political influence but I just thought it was interesting to see. 

 // The heater found in classrooms. Students would set lunch boxes on top of them to keep their food warm. // 

 // I remember having similar text books. I attended half a year of 1st grade before coming to the US // 

 // Old school uniforms you can wear throughout the museum // 

Yangkyu and I were also interested in the section that displayed what going to school was like in the 60s. Again, very similar items to when we were in school, especially the textbooks and even the organ that was in every classroom for music class was the same. I also went to elementary school at a time when classrooms were kept warm in the cold months using a heater that kept burning with the use of charcoal briquette (and I remember seeing these all around the neighborhood - probably not the healthiest..?). I don't remember putting our school lunch boxes on top of them to keep it warm, but my mom told me this is what she did when she went to school (this stuff seriously fascinates me). 

A little side note -- to help visitors really get into experiencing this museum, they have old school uniforms that you can wear and return later. Yangkyu and I didn't do this but thought it was cute, just like the hanbok experience at Changdeokgung, Bukchon Hanok Village and Insadong.

 // Old movie posters // 

 // Film from a movie set // 

 // Ticket booth to the cinemas // 

 // I recall those things where gums used to be displayed in convenience stores // 

 // Those fans I recall as well. It completely brought me back to my childhood when I saw the blue blades. // 

 // And this. This is just the flimsiest umbrellas you will ever see. They don't sell them now of course, but I remember seeing them out in the streets on rainy days, for the unfortunate people who were caught in a downpour who didn't have their umbrellas with them. It is literally just blue plastic lining and would flip over if the winds were slightly rough. // 

 // It reminded me of my grandparents house. // 

 // Kim Goo // 

 // Campaign posters -- Park Jung Hee (dictator and father of the recently disgraced and impeached first female President of Korea, Park Geun-Hye -- Kim Young Sam (a political activist, he would later become president in 1993 -- Kim Dae Jung (also a political activist who was imprisoned and tortured for his beliefs would later become president in 1998 and receive the Nobel Peace Prize in 2000. //

 // Propaganda materials // 

 // On the right is a restaurant receipt from 1971. The most expensive thing on the menu was 300 won (not even close to $1 -- 500 won could be an equivalent to 50 cents). // 

 // Shamanistic rituals // 

 // Magazine ads. If you watch a lot of Korean dramas, you may recognize a famous actress (who passed away recently) who played many notable roles // 

I am the only progressive liberal one in my family. My dad and my brother are all conservative (I am not sure about my mom as she has a mental disorder that has kept me from having any conversation that has depth). So you can imagine some of the heated conversations we have over policy differences and who we think were the greatest  historical and political figures (Yangkyu was caught in one of these debates that I had with my dad, which made him very uncomfortable - lol). 

Our parents are the war generation. My dad grew up during the Korean War. So he saw first hand how poor Korea was. How poor its people were. And to many from that generation, the president who got them through the hardships and came up with a plan to speed up economic growth was Park Jung Hee (who is a cruel dictator and a sell out in my books and the father to the most recently disgraced and impeached president Park Geun-Hye (I didn't think too highly of him before the whole debacle with his daughter) but I digress for the third time...). 

And while my political views didn't change after this museum, what did was perhaps a little bit more understanding of where my father is coming from and how he views certain parts of history as a gleaming success. Because while we learn about the war and see pictures from the war, it doesn't really hit you until 1. it happens to you or 2. you get to semi experience it through an educational venue when you are mature enough to value the information (I felt this way at Dachau Concentration Camp when we were in Germany). In my case, it was the latter. And so one of the last things I said to Yangkyu when we were walking out of the museum was, "I think I understand a little bit how it was for my dad and mom growing up. I'm the privileged one. Having grown up with no worries about money or if I would get to eat or if I would be reunited with my family one day. I went to an expensive school and learned about politics and picked up some viewpoints and have been hurling them at my conservative dad not really knowing his personal experience. I probably just came off as some pompous progressive liberal ass that didn't know one day of hardship." (I'm not saying all progressive liberals are this way.. just my own personal account). That emotional and personal connection, to me, was an important one.

One downside to this museum is that I don't think any of the informational signs were translated in to English and I don't believe there is a headset that explains certain displays in different languages (I could be wrong - we spoke in Korean with the ticket sales person and I didn't bother to inquire about one).

I immensely enjoyed this museum because I love old things, historical things and was able to relate to the items as I have seen them before in my childhood. I am not sure if it may be the same for other people.


After the museum, Yangkyu and I grabbed a quick lunch at the only restaurant that was open (perhaps taking advantage of the group tours that were coming in - we later found out that a place where you can experience virtual reality was also open to a group of business people who were being bused into Paju) and walked around the deserted village. 

Heyri Art Village is full of museums, galleries, cute cafes and restaurants, and handmade shops as well. It is quaintly decorated and has a lot of interesting things to see and experience, which I am pretty bummed that I missed out on. Yangkyu and I have put this place definitely on our place to go if we are ever in Korea again.

I am not quite sure about public transportation coming in from Seoul. Yangkyu and I took a bus from Gangnam, which dropped us off in front of my parents' apartment. And my dad drove us (maybe a 15 minute drive) to the village. Not sure about local transportation in the area. 

Just a heads up for people who want to go to Paju and Heyri Art Village - please don't expect it to be like Seoul. It definitely does feel a bit more deserted and quiet. I think this may be one of the more disappointing aspects of tourists who were expecting the hustle and bustle of a busy city.

Well, that wraps up our Korea travel blog posts. It almost took me an entire year to finish it! 

There are just a few more short posts related to Korea that will go up but going through our day by day account is official done. Yay (#throwconfetti). 

Thanks so much for following along. I hope you enjoyed it as much as me writing about them.

While we are still paying off our trip (lol), Yangkyu and I have been talking about possible travel destinations for next year. We have tossed around some places we want to go but haven't made any decisions and don't plan to until after April. Lady has her senior wellness exam then and we want to make sure everything is ok with her health wise so that we can feel comfortable leaving her for a long period of time.

 // Korea, according to my iPhone (pt. 2)
 // A Gem in Hongdae
 // A Cocker and Friends Meet Up in Hongdae

December 8, 2017

Food journey so far + happy weekend

So it's been about two weeks since my (Almost) Vegan Thanksgiving post and how I declared I was going to try and make changes to the way I eat. My main goal was to cut meat but then also switching out dairy products when we finished what we have in our fridge.

Some things I realized since two weeks ago.

I don't really go crazy for eggs and cheese and while I have been drinking milk the past year, I was drinking soy milk for much longer (until I found out that it could cause infertility, which was when I went back to milk). So drinking milk that's not from cows isn't a big deal for me.

I also realized that I don't really eat a lot of meat on the regular. I do have to say that I did have meat once since trying to go meatless and that was when I was just too tired to cook and was so hungry that Yangkyu and I just went to a Korean restaurant that we frequent to grab a bowl of seolleongtang. That was still just a couple of days after Thanksgiving and now the thought of meat (certain meat)  is kind of is gross. 

In terms of cutting out meat, the trickiest part has been the ease at which sandwiches came in handy during lunch time. A few times a month I would pick up cold cuts from the deli and enjoy ham and turkey sandwiches. It was convenient and, well, I like sandwiches (especially stuffing potato chips in them - does anyone do this??)! But do I miss it? I do, but not to the point where I think I'm missing out. And plus, while I enjoyed meat sandwiches, veggie sandwiches are just as good and I also enjoy a nice bowl of rice and my favorite Korean side dishes are all plant and root based. 

Yangkyu and I also used to enjoy Korean BBQ at home. Not often. Maybe every two months? (I realized we really don't eat a lot of meat to begin with - well Yangkyu probably more because he eats out at work but I really don't). And the few times we did have it, I enjoyed it. But my thought right now is, it won't kill me if I never have it. 

But with all this realization, I am not sure where I am going with this new food journey of mine. We had (or tried) to have a vegan Thanksgiving but I don't plan on giving up on fish or shellfish. And the broth I make for Korean stews are based on scallion roots, kelp, onions, radish and dried anchovies. And we use fish oil a lot for flavor.

And while I don't go crazy for dairy products, it's again this convenience issue. Eggs for breakfast is just something wired in me. I have had eggs once since going meatless at the end of November (for breakfast) and while I do plan on cutting it out of my baking, I am not too sure if it'll go away entirely for consumption. We'll see. 

Butter though, we have completely made the switch over to a vegan brand called Earth Balance and we have no issues with it whatsoever. 

Yangkyu and I have also tried tofu turkey (terrible), chickpea patties (vegetarian only - so good!) and recently got jackfruit pulled pork. I am slightly nervous about this one because jackfruit is durian fruit and while I have never had it, I have been told of its strong pungent smell (something I am most likely will not be a fan of). We still got it because Yangkyu wanted to try it. So one of these nights we'll be having it for dinner. 

We also tried a new vegan hummus brand which we absolutely love and right now I am trying out almond milk, although I don't think I am a fan of it. I already went through a bottle and picked up an almond and coconut milk mix, which I am also not too crazy about. 

Finally, I have also joined a couple of Vegan Facebook groups and have been reading people's recipes, journeys (why they became vegan - mainly health and animal rights reasons) and how they manage to budget. It's all been very eyeopening and inspiring.

Again, I shouldn't probably label this journey as vegan. And it's not really a peso-vegetarian since I am cutting out all dairy with eggs an exception (maybe?), or perhaps it is? Who knows.

Well, whatever it is, it's been going well. Mainly because I don't mind the changes and because I have realized that I don't need to make drastic changes.

Hopefully two weeks from now I can report back to say that it's going even better. 

So have a wonderful weekend, friends. We may get our first snow of the year. While I am not a big fan of the fluffy stuff, firsts are always exciting.

December 6, 2017

Favorite Christmas Carols

I'm not religious but for a long time I loved listening to Away in the Manger and The First Noel. They were my favorites. But lately I've been into ones that make you want to have random dance parties in the kitchen - like Brenda Lee's Rockin Around the Christmas Tree. That one gets me every time. It's like drop everything and dance!

I also realized that Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas, the version Frank Sinatra sings, is really  depressing. It was playing in the background the other day and just brought the whole mood down. Yangkyu thinks I'll Be Home for Christmas is the saddest Christmas song. 

My Pandora (does anyone still use this?) is fixed on Christmas station and I have it playing at random times of the day. For some people, too much Christmas music annoys them. I happen to like it and I don't tire of it. It reminds me of all the fun things that happened in the small town I grew up in and how my mom used to set a plate for our childhood cocker, Bobby, at the family table. Plates she would only use for our Christmas Eve dinners (Christmas Eve dinners were bigger for us than Christmas dinners). Those were happy times. 

December 5, 2017


I have been on break from Piri's Place since November 26th - so a little over a week. I usually close for about a week after a wave of guests leave and we haven't had numerous requests for booking for the month of December. We have one guest coming tomorrow for daycare and another for a week-long stay next week.

October was just an incredibly busy month where we had up to 8 dogs at one point while November was less hectic. But it seems as though December, usually one of our busiest months, is very slow. Part of the reason I presume is because we are closing for Christmas and New Year's this year. The first time since starting Piri's Place.

We decided to close because starting off in January we have a couple of guests staying with us for the entire month and one gets nauseous during car rides and so we can't go out even for a little bit for quick coffee runs with all the dogs. And so before I get busy with these guests, I knew I needed a good week or so off. And the timing worked out well for us - it will give us a chance to enjoy the holidays with Lady and go see The Nutcracker (something we tried to make a tradition, switching off with A Christmas Carol at Ford's Theatre but kind of fell of the wagon) and do other holiday things. Yangkyu's last final is on the 19th and Piri's Place is off from the 20th so it really is perfect timing for us. 

Before with Yangkyu's previous job which allowed him to work from home for most of the week and when he didn't have school, we were always out and about when we didn't have guest dogs. We were always going to dog friendly places, taking lots of pictures and experiencing new (and old) things. We haven't done that in a long time. Aside from not having time to go out anymore, to be honest, while Lady is an extremely gentle dog and so great in many ways, she gets me a little nervous. I already mentioned her peeing and pooping out of nowhere (on side walks, etc. - Piri always went on grass and never inside stores) but she sometimes isn't the friendliest to other dogs while she is leashed. She doesn't bite and she enjoys the meeting at first but when the dogs gets too in her face she'll growl. She sometimes jumps or moves her body at the same time and that's probably why I get so nervous. I also don't know how the other dog will react. I never had a problem with friendliness with Piri and Bartles and so rather than getting her more used to greeting dogs while leashed (she is fine at home) I have been shying away from it. I shouldn't, and I know we can get over this (and it's not a major issue where she's dangerously aggressive.. it's something very minor) but it's just one of many things that has been slipping off my plate lately. 

Which brings me to my main conundrum.

Why have I been so lazy lately? 

I look at my old pictures and posts and wonder how I was so into making and baking and cooking and pictures and DIY posts. I don't think I can ever work on a DIY post again. So much work! While I have so many knitting patterns, crafting ideas and books I want to read it takes me forever to pick it up. Writing a blog, reading blogs and going down my Instagram feed seem like daunting tasks. They never felt this way. And I feel a part of myself inner self crying every time I write this because I know somewhere in the past 6 months, a year, maybe more, I have written about this. This funk. And since then, each day has started with a new determination and has ended with a "maybe tomorrow." For far too long. Which makes it that much more depressing. 

I meant to take more pictures like I used to and Lady shying away from the camera has felt deflating and I feel incredibly bad that I am somehow placing blame for my lack of motivation on Lady. 

Something in my life has felt off kilter for a while. I was thinking one night that perhaps I am still missing the life I had with Piri. The amazing rhythm we had. The way we all knew each other's next move even without speaking. And maybe I'm trying to recreate that when I should embrace and accept what we have now. Or did I exhaust myself too much the two years caring for my old and sick boys and now my body is just wanting to be on a long long break. 

Me and my thoughts. Sometimes I am that beaver overthinking dam

December 4, 2017

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